What’s the #14 Reason You Can’t Find Love?
We are up to number 14. This one will disturb many of you. The number 14 reason you can’t find love is because you are looking for unconditional love. Number 14 is such a myth that I want to kill it today. There is no such thing as unconditional love. When people say they […]
Ted Santos Book Launch for: Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love
Today is May 18, and it is the debut of my book, Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love. It is a dynamic book that uncovers, through story, how people sabotage relationships in love, work or play. I use a real event where five women interview me. Their question starts with: Ted, what do you want […]
Is This Your Mindset When It Comes to Love Relationships?
There are many myths that surround love relationships. Number 13 is a big myth. The 13th reason you can’t find love is because you believe relationships take hard work. There is a French philosopher by the name of Jean Paul Sartre. He said once you believe something is true, you will go out of your […]
Are You Trying to Create Love or a Fantasy?
I already talked about how people look for magic. Today I want to address how relationships were and how the media changed what use to work. This idea of romance is new in human history. It’s about 170 years old. Before that, marriages were arranged or semi arranged. The union of the 2 had […]
Is It Love That Blinds People? Or Are You Blinded By Something Else?
Reason #10 you can’t find love is because you are waiting for magic. It’s amazing when you meet women and they tell you that a man should just know what a woman wants. In fact, they say it is his job to just know. That is how things magically happen. Many women believe if a […]
Can Good Intentions Turn into Bad Habits?
Number 9 is difficult to escape because we all engage in this activity. In fact, we are taught to use this skill even if it works against us. We all judge and assess others to protect self or to find pleasure. The problem is you can only judge to the extent your environment allows you […]
Why Do People Believe Relationships Are Hard Work?
Number 8 is going to sound crazy at first. Stay with me and think about it. I am saying the reason your relationships don’t work or you get mediocre at best is because you have never been trained to be in a relationship. Yes, I said that. Think about it. If you have a billion […]
Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love
How Do You Handle Problems in Your Relationship?
The number 7 reason could almost appear innocent. You have friends and family who traditionally look out for your best interest. At least it seems like it should be that way. At the same time, if you have a successful love relationship, they may be envious of it. Most likely, they will never tell you […]
Are Your Relationships Built on Illusions That Feel Good?
This one is going to be very difficult for most of you. You have come to depend on it so much that you may not know how to do without it. The number 6 reason you cannot find love is because you depend on chemistry. If you understand the number 5 reason I gave, you […]