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Here's Why You Can't Find Love
In his eye-opening book, “Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love,” Ted Santos flips the script on relationships, blending his expertise in disruptive leadership with raw insights into personal growth and emotional intelligence. Drawing powerful parallels between business strategy and personal connection, Ted reveals how the same mindset shifts that drive breakthroughs in leadership can transform how we approach love and relationships.
He highlights a staggering statistic—divorce costs U.S. businesses over $300 billion annually in lost productivity, increased stress, and leadership instability—proving that personal struggles bleed into professional performance.
Packed with counterintuitive wisdom and practical tools, this book challenges readers to confront their blind spots, break destructive patterns, and unlock deeper connections—both in their personal lives and professional circles.
Whether your audience is navigating relationships or leading teams, Ted’s book offers a radical perspective on building trust, resilience, and alignment—making it a must-read for anyone ready to achieve extraordinary results in love, life, and business.
- Meet the author
The Leadership Disruptor Who Turns Chaos into Breakthroughs
Ted Santos is not your typical business strategist—he’s a leadership disruptor who challenges the status quo and trains and develops CEOs, executives, and entrepreneurs to create problems instead of solving them to fuel breakthrough growth. As the creator of the Disruptive Leadership Model, Ted equips leaders to master chaos, engineer transformation, and scale the impossible without breaking their businesses—or themselves.
With a background in turning struggling companies into market leaders, Ted’s unconventional strategies have helped businesses achieve what once seemed unimaginable, including doubling productivity in months and breaking through growth ceilings.
His expertise extends beyond boardrooms—Ted’s groundbreaking book, “Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love,” reveals how personal struggles, like broken relationships, cost U.S. businesses over $300 billion annually and provides tools for leaders to fix the hidden leaks that sabotage success.
Ted doesn’t just talk about breakthroughs—he creates them. Whether it’s scaling during rapid growth, transforming culture, or leading through chaos, Ted brings game-changing insights that resonate deeply with high-achievers looking to think bigger, act bolder, and dominate their industries.
If your podcast audience craves bold ideas, counterintuitive strategies, and practical tools to fuel disruption and innovation, Ted Santos is the guest who will leave them empowered and ready to act.
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Why Your Love Life’s Stuck—and the Book That’ll Fix It
In a world overflowing with relationship advice—where self-help books line shelves with promises of eternal romance and Hollywood paints love as a whirlwind of fireworks and poetic confessions—Ted Santos’ Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love emerges as a bold, refreshing, and utterly transformative work.
- testimonials
What People Say About The Book
“Ted Santos shows readers how to achieve a life-time partner that shares your purpose for taking this life’s journey and to endure all enjoyments and challenges that will enter your path.”
Linda Brown
Ph.D.
“I have applied the principles in this book to my personal relationships with friends and family. Ted Santos’ techniques allow you to know how to sift out the ‘not for me’s.’ I can truly say that I found the principles outstanding.”
Dr. Anita Kay Martin
M.D., F.A.C.O.G.
A great read for anyone interested in boosting their interpersonal morale and their understanding of others. I would recommend it to men, women, business executives, psychology lovers, and others who enjoy “reading” people. Ted Santos shares a great wealth of knowledge and a perspective I have not seen in other books. It is a true original that can bring a lot of health to all different types of relationships, worldwide.
Stacy Padula
Kindle Customer