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Here's Why You Can't Find Love

In his eye-opening book, “Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love,” Ted Santos flips the script on relationships, blending his expertise in disruptive leadership with raw insights into personal growth and emotional intelligence. Drawing powerful parallels between business strategy and personal connection, Ted reveals how the same mindset shifts that drive breakthroughs in leadership can transform how we approach love and relationships.
He highlights a staggering statistic—divorce costs U.S. businesses over $300 billion annually in lost productivity, increased stress, and leadership instability—proving that personal struggles bleed into professional performance.
Packed with counterintuitive wisdom and practical tools, this book challenges readers to confront their blind spots, break destructive patterns, and unlock deeper connections—both in their personal lives and professional circles.
Whether your audience is navigating relationships or leading teams, Ted’s book offers a radical perspective on building trust, resilience, and alignment—making it a must-read for anyone ready to achieve extraordinary results in love, life, and business.

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The Leadership Disruptor Who Turns Chaos into Breakthroughs

Ted Santos is not your typical business strategist—he’s a leadership disruptor who challenges the status quo and trains and develops CEOs, executives, and entrepreneurs to create problems instead of solving them to fuel breakthrough growth. As the creator of the Disruptive Leadership Model, Ted equips leaders to master chaos, engineer transformation, and scale the impossible without breaking their businesses—or themselves.

With a background in turning struggling companies into market leaders, Ted’s unconventional strategies have helped businesses achieve what once seemed unimaginable, including doubling productivity in months and breaking through growth ceilings.

His expertise extends beyond boardrooms—Ted’s groundbreaking book, “Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love,” reveals how personal struggles, like broken relationships, cost U.S. businesses over $300 billion annually and provides tools for leaders to fix the hidden leaks that sabotage success.

Ted doesn’t just talk about breakthroughs—he creates them. Whether it’s scaling during rapid growth, transforming culture, or leading through chaos, Ted brings game-changing insights that resonate deeply with high-achievers looking to think bigger, act bolder, and dominate their industries.

If your podcast audience craves bold ideas, counterintuitive strategies, and practical tools to fuel disruption and innovation, Ted Santos is the guest who will leave them empowered and ready to act.

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Why Your Love Life’s Stuck—and the Book That’ll Fix It

In a world overflowing with relationship advice—where self-help books line shelves with promises of eternal romance and Hollywood paints love as a whirlwind of fireworks and poetic confessions—Ted Santos’ Here’s Why You Can’t Find Love emerges as a bold, refreshing, and utterly transformative work.

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